Stop hoping to randomly "bump into" your people. Let us engineer the introduction. We all have spent years navigating digital spaces, hoping to stumble upon a sense of belonging that feels genuine. Outclose is the invitation to finally stop searching and start arriving.
There is a specific kind of magic that only happens across a dinner table. Outclose curates the company so you can rediscover the lost art of a real conversation.
We believe the most profound connections are found in the warmth of a voice, the experience of a shared meal, and the unexpected wit of a stranger. This isn't just dinner; it’s the end of the search.
▶ THE ART OF THE INTRODUCTION ◀
[ Composed, Not Random ] We begin by understanding the cadence of your personality. Our matching is an intentional craft, ensuring that the five LGBTQ+ people seated across from you aren't just strangers—they are your peers, chosen for their compatibility with your spirit and your social energy.
[ The Sanctuary of Six ] A table of six is a deliberate masterpiece. It is small enough for meaningful, close conversation, yet vibrant enough to spark a debate. It is the perfect geometry for a night where every voice carries weight and every story finds a home.
[ Hand-Picked Tables ] The backdrop matters as much as the guests. We partner with local, inclusive sanctuaries—restaurants that prioritize atmosphere and conversation over the frantic pace of the city.
[ The Ease of Arrival ] We handle the logistics so you can focus on the presence. We manage the reservation, the group, and the spark of the evening. Your only requirement is to show up, sit down, and let the evening unfold.
[ The Found Family ] The check arrives, but the connection remains. When the night clicks, our space makes it effortless to keep the momentum alive. What starts as a shared meal frequently matures into the deep understanding of a chosen family.
▶ WHY OUTCLOSE? ◀
Curated Groups: We pair individuals with complementary temperaments to ensure the conversation never falters.
Platonic Friendships: A dedicated realm for building a social circle, free from the exhaustion of dating expectations.
A Universal Welcome: A space designed specifically for every identity across the LGBTQ+ spectrum to feel seen and celebrated.
Real-World Depth: Trade the performative digital life for the relief of an authentic, in-person introduction.
▶ THE PATH TO THE TABLE ◀
Reflect: Tell us about the person you are and the people you’re looking for.
Select: Choose your city and your preferred evening.
Reveal: Receive your curated invitation and the location of your table.
Connect: Step out of the scroll and into a night designed for you.
[ What’s Included ]
Expert LGBTQ+ compatibility matching.
A confirmed seat at a vetted, inclusive local restaurant.
Thoughtful prompts to move the conversation toward the meaningful.
[ A Note on the Night ] Outclose curates the connection; guests are responsible for ordering and settling their own dinner bills directly with the restaurant. We provide the community; you provide the presence.
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I have not met many people since moving to NYC about 4 years ago, but now I can meet 8 new people a week by going to two meals a week with Outclose. It is so easy, just fill out a survey, book your dinner and Outclose finds the people and the venue. You just show up and connect! I love this app and see myself using it indefinitely! It is a healthy way to meet people outside of going to the bars. You can find real people, real conversation, in nice places with great food. You have many chances to network, meet new friends or even possibly that next special person in your life. The opportunities are endless. My group saw another group of young guys that were having dinner that all met through Outclose. They all looked like they were having a great time as well. My only wish about Outclose is that I wish I had it or something like it in my early twenties. It would have been a great option for me, back then other than trying to meet people at the bar. Thank you Outclose for my first great dinner through the app and for many more dinners and brunches and connections in the future!!😊
find your community without the hassle of dating
Comedygoddess
my first experience was fantastic. We women got together at a Fabulous WeHo café immediately we connected chatted and found a way to build bridges to each other. It was so great having a non-alcohol opportunity to connect where I could actually have great conversations
The worst
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I had a paid Outclose membership and tried two different events before deciding to cancel my membership—with four months still remaining—because both experiences were so disappointing.The first event was brunch. About half of the group canceled. One of the people who did attend brought a friend they already knew, which completely changed the dynamic of what was supposed to be a group of people meeting one another. It was difficult to engage when two people arrived together and naturally already had an established conversation and relationship. There was also no option to split the bill, so I ended up contributing toward other people’s drinks rather than simply paying for what I ordered.I still decided to give Outclose another chance and attended a coffee meetup. That experience was worse. When I arrived, there wasn’t even a reserved table or seat for the group. I ordered a pastry while waiting and was then told I couldn’t sit at the table because of what I had ordered. No one offered to take an additional order for tea, and I wasn’t even offered a glass of water. I essentially had to beg a server to come over and serve me.I understand that Outclose cannot control every cancellation or every interaction with restaurant staff. But I paid for a membership because I expected the service to organize and facilitate a comfortable, functional environment for meeting other LGBTQ+ people. Across two events, the basic organization simply wasn’t there.I canceled my membership despite still having four months remaining. I’d rather lose the remaining time I already paid for than attend another event.
No options for lesbian meetups.
nooneatall
The app offers “men” “sapphic” and “mixed”. Where is the option for women who only want to meet other women? Why are nonbinary people not included in gay men’s meetups? Poor attempt at inclusivity that makes it seem like this is an app for gay men and bisexual people only
Small bug fixes
Version 1.0.15
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